stupid birthday.....
yesterday was my birthday. yipee. I swear I don't know what it is im looking for, but year after year im just not getting it. It's not like I expect a big party, lavish gifts...ok, maybe a suprise party one year wouldnt be bad....and I know things have been tight for us money wise, but my day came and went with scarcely an acknowledgement. Joe, has never been really big on "holidays" and I've somewhat learned to not expect any grand gestures from him.
He at least got me a card for valentines day, but he left it in the car and didnt give it to me until the next day, and when I told him he was so unromatic he got an attitude about it...he makes me so mad sometimes. I bitched him out the next day about it, but sometimes I think im talking to a wall.
Jessicas birthday is today...the day after mine...and ever since she's been born, I've always focused so much more on her birthday than my own. She's having a big party next weekend with tons of friends from school, im going to cook, make cakes, the whole nine....so today she was mainly in the bed, she has the flu, but she's almost over it....when i asked her to help with cleaning up, she made a comment about "whatever happened to having birthday weekends off?" wow that pissed me off to no end....good question! what HAS happened to birthday weekends off??? I cant remember the last time I was given a weekend off...no one gave ME breakfast in bed, or asked if there was anything I needed on my birthday.
the bottom line is I think her and joe can be so fcuking selfish sometimes, it makes me want to throw up. I expect it from her sometimes, I mean she's a 14 year old girl fercrissakes, she's expected to be selfish at times, but it seems no matter how many times I point out how selfish he can be at times it doesnt change, he still keeps his little childish outlook on life and it makes me sick.
true, im venting right now, and he does things that makes up for his selfishness at times, but im so sick of being the one who's strong and tries to keep things together without an attitude. why cant someone look out for me once in a while?
Im not even freaking out that im 39....that my mother didnt call me, two of my sisers didnt call me, my best friend didnt call me....
or maybe i am...i dunno
stupid birthday....
my online access is limited, so i probably wont be able to post or respond for another week....
He at least got me a card for valentines day, but he left it in the car and didnt give it to me until the next day, and when I told him he was so unromatic he got an attitude about it...he makes me so mad sometimes. I bitched him out the next day about it, but sometimes I think im talking to a wall.
Jessicas birthday is today...the day after mine...and ever since she's been born, I've always focused so much more on her birthday than my own. She's having a big party next weekend with tons of friends from school, im going to cook, make cakes, the whole nine....so today she was mainly in the bed, she has the flu, but she's almost over it....when i asked her to help with cleaning up, she made a comment about "whatever happened to having birthday weekends off?" wow that pissed me off to no end....good question! what HAS happened to birthday weekends off??? I cant remember the last time I was given a weekend off...no one gave ME breakfast in bed, or asked if there was anything I needed on my birthday.
the bottom line is I think her and joe can be so fcuking selfish sometimes, it makes me want to throw up. I expect it from her sometimes, I mean she's a 14 year old girl fercrissakes, she's expected to be selfish at times, but it seems no matter how many times I point out how selfish he can be at times it doesnt change, he still keeps his little childish outlook on life and it makes me sick.
true, im venting right now, and he does things that makes up for his selfishness at times, but im so sick of being the one who's strong and tries to keep things together without an attitude. why cant someone look out for me once in a while?
Im not even freaking out that im 39....that my mother didnt call me, two of my sisers didnt call me, my best friend didnt call me....
or maybe i am...i dunno
stupid birthday....
my online access is limited, so i probably wont be able to post or respond for another week....
this is a shame!
next year do something for yourself...people are selfish.
they sit around expecting instead of giving.
happy belated bday and many happy ones in your future!
Posted by
feels good b n FREE |
9:58 PM EST
im sorry that your birthday felt so awful, im in the same boat each weekend i get up and cook the breakfast, do all the chores while my husband sits and watches tv only getting up after he smells the bacon and eggs, then he butters the toast so he can get some :P But in so many other ways hes awesome but yes it can hurt.
I just want youy know that im not a family member best friend or even anyone you know but i do wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
Posted by
jumpinginpuddles |
12:02 AM EST
Aww, I'm sorry your birthday was such a bummer. That is why I always hint, hint about it way in advance. Let the assholes KNOW that you expect something, even if it's just acknowledgement. My husband forgot my first Mother's Day. What, like the kid wasn't sitting RIGHT THERE?
You should have told US. I would have called you!
Happy Belated! nonetheless!
You look like a monkey
And you smell like one too!
(Does juvenile humor help?)
Posted by
Peggasus |
1:47 PM EST
happy belated.
Posted by
Genesis |
2:05 PM EST
Wishing you a Happy Belated Birthday. I hope that all these wishes help you to feel better!
~Deb
Posted by
Dr. Deb |
5:35 PM EST
Happy Belated birthday Chase.
Wishing you good health and happiness always. ~
Posted by
Heidi |
6:56 PM EST
Happy Belated Birthday!!
Posted by
theequeenbee |
9:14 PM EST
I also had a crappy birthday. My eldest son was bummed about his girlfriend and kept moping and whinning and complaining until my day was miserable too. Ugh... I feel for ya... If you are up north for your birthday next year lets go have a b-day party on the town!
Posted by
Anonymous |
9:25 PM EST
Saw the heading and thought of yelling "CONGRATULATIONS!! Happy belated birthday!!".
Then I read the rest of the post and thought maybe comiserations would be more in order.
Sorry to hear that it wasn't as good for you as it should have been, but I second the earlier comment that you should do something for yourself next time around. If nobody there's going to make it special for you, you should take the situation in hand and make yourself happy instead. You know you deserve it, so do whatever it takes to make YOU happy for a change.
...Even if it means spending money/effort you would otherwise have put into making someone else's day special.
For what it's worth, you've got a great big hug from me, one from Noon, and quite a few slobbery licks from Sam and Rosie :)
Happy Belated Birthday, Chase. Both to you and Jessica.
Posted by
Min |
12:52 AM EST
Aww man, sorry I missed your special day. Happy (stoopid) birthday late. :)
Lois Lane
Posted by
Lois Lane |
2:35 PM EST
Sorry to hear you didn't get the royal treatment on your special day. I hope you treated yourself though.
Posted by
Unknown |
10:44 PM EST
As long as I get Cake I am happy.
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